{"id":6830,"date":"2022-11-06T14:01:29","date_gmt":"2022-11-06T22:01:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/?p=6830"},"modified":"2025-04-16T14:07:54","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T21:07:54","slug":"song-trong-doi-song-can-co-mot-tam-long-long-gi-de-lam-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/song-trong-doi-song-can-co-mot-tam-long-long-gi-de-lam-gi.html","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng. L\u00f2ng g\u00ec? \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f4 nh\u1eefng group m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y.\u00a0 <\/span>H\u00f4m nay m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o d\u1ed7i m\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201cth\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n s\u01b0\u1edbng h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u1ed5, \u0111\u1ee1 lo<\/b>\u201d m\u00e0 th\u1eadt ra n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129, kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i, kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn xa, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. M\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb th\u00ec khoe ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ea5y anh th\u00ec khoe xe, ti\u1ec1n, ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i sao, sao l\u1ea1i eo h\u1eb9p<\/b> v\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n<\/b> th\u1ebf. Ti\u1ebfng M\u1ef9 c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201cSapiosexuality<\/b>\u201d, \u201cSapiophile<\/b>\u201d ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u00ea nhau, th\u00edch nhau v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i.<\/em><\/p>\n

Trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201copen mind\u201d, \u201csense of humor\u201d, \u201cspontaneous\u201d, \u201cno fear\u201d, \u201ctruthful\u201d, \u201csapiophile\u201d<\/b>. T\u1ea1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean m\u00ecnh tin v\u00e0o n\u1ed3i n\u00e0o \u1eafp vung \u0111\u00f3<\/b>. T\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh th\u00edch nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh n\u00e0y? v\u00ec t\u00ednh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh thi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e2u d\u00e0i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 sung t\u00fac. M\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 sau khi l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1edbi m\u1ea5y, l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh m\u00e3i c\u0169ng ch\u00e1n.<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i clubs h\u1eb1ng tu\u1ea7n, trong m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac, trai g\u00e1i \u00ea h\u1ec1, m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u1ef1a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt chic<\/b>, kh\u00f4ng h\u1edf hang, c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1eadt , gi\u1ea3 khoe h\u1ebft v\u00ec m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecb khoe ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c t\u1ef1 tin, ngo\u00e0i th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 offer n\u1eefa. M\u1ea5y t\u00ean \u0111i clubs c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 \u0111em xe MBZ, BMW, Porche c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 khoe ta \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ea1y xe \u00dd, kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 th\u00edch l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng t\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ecb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00edch ng\u1ed3i xe Alfa Romeo, Lancia c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ea1y nghe ti\u1ebfng r\u00fa c\u1ee7a m\u00e1y xe th\u1eadt d\u00f2n tai. Ch\u1ecb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00edch v\u00ec xe n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh mua v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mua v\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00edch ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho m\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb th\u00edch, nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecb m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 h\u1edf hang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch xe m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecb th\u00edch xe m\u00ecnh v\u00ec nh\u00e0 m\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 t\u1ef7 MBZ, BMW, Porche r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ed3i xe l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y romance c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh LOL. M\u1ea5y t\u00ean T\u1ea7u, Nh\u1eadt, \u0110\u1ea1i H\u00e0n cao to kho\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p ch\u1ea1y xe x\u1ecbn m\u00e0 b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh sao nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u00f4ng minh, con nh\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i \u0111i theo th\u1eb1ng VN nh\u1ecf x\u00edu, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec1n, ch\u1ea1y xe d\u1ed5m n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i kinh ho\u00e0ng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 mode, r\u1ed9ng th\u00f9ng th\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u00ean trong th\u00ec \u0111\u1eb9p kinh ho\u00e0ng. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 sao, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e2m ngh\u00e8o m\u1edbi th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed3 hi\u1ec7u<\/b>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e2m gi\u1ea7u th\u00ec th\u00edch Sapiophile<\/b> m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 sapiophile<\/b> 100%. T\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? V\u00ec n\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng ba x\u1ea1o, th\u00edch g\u00ec l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i theo m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y th\u00ec nh\u1eefng Sapiophile<\/b> kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y.<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sapiophile<\/b>? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf Ch\u00f9a, Nh\u00e0 Th\u1edd, ngay c\u1ea3 th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n, sapiophile<\/b> c\u00f3 open mind<\/b>,\u00a0 <\/span>kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb g\u00f2 b\u00f3 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec, n\u00ean ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. M\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i con c\u1ee9 \u0111i clubs th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao con ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb T\u1ea7u, Nh\u1eadt, \u0110\u1ea1i H\u00e0n n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh v\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111i LOL. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng con nh\u00e0, th\u00f4ng minh, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e9o v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh v\u00ec khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch m\u00ecnh th\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. M\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u00e9o kinh ho\u00e0ng, m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh m\u00ea l\u1eafm, ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n. B\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edb v\u1ea9n, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb n\u00e0y th\u00ec th\u00edch qu\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n

Khi m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 open mind<\/b> th\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh ki\u1ebfm sapiophile<\/b> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3, th\u00ec m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p b\u00e0 x\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, MIRC c\u1ea3 t\u1ef7 n\u0103m r\u1ed3i. Khi m\u00ecnh l\u00ean B\u1eafc Cali, \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng tr\u1ecd nh\u1ecf tr\u1ea3 $800 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, m\u00ecnh ch\u00e1n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi OC m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 2500SQ \u1edf Lake Forest qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb9p.\u00a0 <\/span>M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft clubs \u00c1 \u0111\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n ta v\u1ec1 ta t\u1eafm ao ta<\/b> k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y n\u00ean b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i v\u00e0o Vi\u1ec7t Chat n\u0103m 2000. Th\u00ec c\u1ea3 t\u1ef7 VN t\u1eeb kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e1i hay l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai l\u00e0 sapiophile<\/b>, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng ch\u1eef tr\u00ean m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh, th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o th\u00ec private chat v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ea5y c\u00e2u l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, th\u00f4ng minh, d\u00ed d\u1ecfm, nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, bi quan, l\u1ea1c quan, vui t\u00ednh, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f9a, bi\u1ebft m\u00f3c m\u00e1y, t\u1ef1 tin (thi\u1ec7t hay gi\u1ea3).<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn kh\u00f4ng xa l\u00e0 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/b>. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 sao? C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ki\u1ebfm c\u1ea3 t\u1ef7 b\u1ea1c nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m chung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/b>. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 TeamWork<\/b> ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u00ecnh anh l\u00e0m v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh em l\u00e0m<\/b>, c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec m\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i (I) l\u00e0m, em, anh, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec h\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00ec l\u00e0m \u01a1n ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9m m\u00ecnh \u0111i. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 T\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u00f4i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. There is NO \u201cI\u201d (t\u00f4i) in Team<\/b>, ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00e1t b\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/b>. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a nhau th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Khi m\u00ecnh \u0111i date, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng n\u00f3i con c\u00f3 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd kh\u1ed5, th\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00edch nh\u1eefng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 sao? N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u01b0, h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean<\/b>, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 vui v\u1ebb. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd m\u0169i d\u1ea7y c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, m\u00f4i d\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i x\u1ea1o, r\u0103ng to t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t, m\u1eb7t b\u1ea7u b\u0129nh d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh, d\u00e1i tai d\u1ea7y c\u00f3 ph\u00fac, l\u00f4ng m\u00e0y \u0111\u1eadm ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e1m l\u00e0m, tr\u00e1n d\u00f4 b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, c\u1eb1m b\u1ef1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 n\u00e0ng ki\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh tr\u00e1nh, m\u0169i d\u1ecdc d\u1eeba nh\u1ecf nh\u00e1nh d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i xoan c\u1eb1m nh\u1ecdn ho\u1eafc, mi\u1ec7ng nh\u1ecf nh\u1eafn xinh x\u1eafn, \u0111i \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9 kh\u00fam n\u00fam ti\u1ec3u th\u01a1\u2026 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m.<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng (open mind) l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh \u0111i ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i chung vui v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7t n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eadt l\u1eb7ng, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1 nh\u1ecf r\u1edbt tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y. C\u00f2n \u0111i ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9, ba x\u1ea1o, g\u00f2 b\u00f3, th\u00ec nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p. Ph\u1ea3i trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, this is what I am, take it or leave it, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u00edch m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi relationship t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o th\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt s\u1ebd l\u00e0m tan t\u00e0nh li\u1ec1n.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng vui, \u0103n ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ngon, t\u1eeb ti\u1ec7m sang cho t\u1edbi ti\u1ec7m r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n, h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, kh\u00f4ng suy b\u00ec, ngh\u0129 ng\u1ee3i, \u0111\u1eddi sao \u0111\u1eb9p sao.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1i sex \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i \u201cspontaneous\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 sao? Khi tay \u0111\u1ee5ng tay, c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a th\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00e1i \u201canimal attraction\u201d s\u1ebd t\u1edbi, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u201ct\u1edbi\u201d v\u1edbi nhau li\u1ec1n, n\u1ebfu \u201cth\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y mai\u201d, \u201cch\u1edd \u0111i v\u00e0o hotel\u201d, \u201cm\u00ecnh m\u1edbi quen h\u01a1i l\u1eb9\u201d,<\/b> th\u00ec climax s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u1eefa, ph\u1ea3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, right now, any place, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o. Nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ecb b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i \u201cI love you\u201d th\u00ec s\u1ebd cho m\u00ecnh t\u1edbi, xin t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00ec m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ed1i m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 n\u00f3i x\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 low level enjoyment, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 high level enjoyment<\/b>. Th\u00ec khi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o th\u00ec t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd t\u1edbi t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh vinh quang LOL, IMHO. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ed9n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (you rock my world) v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean quen nhau l\u00e2u, l\u1ea5y nhau m\u1edbi b\u1ecb h\u1eefng h\u1edd.<\/em><\/p>\n

Khi m\u00ecnh nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh \u0103n ngon m\u00ecnh vui, m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i, m\u00ecnh vui, khi m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 d\u1ecb h\u1ee3m m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p kinh ho\u00e0ng, khi m\u00ecnh nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eedi \u201csao anh ngu th\u1ebf\u201d m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi, khi m\u00ecnh \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1eabn \u0111i ch\u1ed7 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi m\u00ecnh nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3c m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n th\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1i s\u1ef1 huy\u1ec1n di\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a \u201cSapiophile\u201d l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh tan c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec1m kh\u00edch v\u1ec1 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o<\/b>, nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 x\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o d\u00f2ng, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh theo \u0111\u1ea1o, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft con c\u00e1i \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, h\u1ecdc bible study,\u00a0 <\/span>kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y th\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o trong nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ngo\u00e0i decoration cho nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p ra v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n v\u00ec khi m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 sung t\u00fac th\u00ec s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u ra \u201ctu t\u1ea1i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0\u201d. B\u00ean M\u1ef9 c\u00f3 hai c\u00e1i t\u1ef1 do m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cho nhau v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb<\/b>. Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau qu\u00fd.<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, ly d\u1ecb, con c\u00e1i. C\u00e1i th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn ph\u1ea3i v\u1ee9t \u0111i m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3, t\u1ea1i sao anh gi\u00e0 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n? T\u1ea1i sao em gi\u00e0 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai? T\u1ea1i sao anh, em ly d\u1ecb?\u00a0 <\/span>\u0110\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao? M\u00ecnh quen b\u00e0 x\u00e3 l\u00fac 40 tu\u1ed5i, b\u00e0 x\u00e3 30. Tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1edbi quan tr\u1ecdng, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf qua, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ta, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00fang ta<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Honesty<\/b>, m\u00ecnh cho b\u00e0 x\u00e3 bi\u1ebft l\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ed5ng, n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n l\u00fac m\u1edbi quen, th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec v\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ra. LOL.<\/em><\/p>\n

No Fear<\/b>, m\u00ecnh th\u00edch \u0111i ski<\/b>, b\u00e0 x\u00e3 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed lu\u00f4n, t\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ee3\u2026, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1nh golf<\/b>, \u0111\u00e1nh lu\u00f4n, th\u00edch \u0111i bi\u1ec3n, ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft b\u01a1i, h\u1ecdc b\u01a1i lu\u00f4n<\/b>, m\u00ecnh th\u00edch \u0111i xe b\u1ecf mui<\/b>, \u0111i Vegas trong n\u1eafng 100F kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 \u0111en lu\u00f4n, v\u00ec khi m\u00ecnh cho \u00fd ki\u1ebfn l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng vacations nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd technology qu\u00e1 hay, coi h\u00ecnh coi video qu\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i \u201csurprise\u201d, c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u201ckh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d. Theo m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i h\u00ecnh c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 xong. N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, th\u00edch nhau th\u00ec \u0111i g\u1eb7p nhau, bay \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, g\u1eb7p r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u0169ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i s\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi l\u1ed7 l\u00e3, v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c ki\u1ebfm r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau \u201ct\u00e1t b\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ai l\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eb7p nhau, l\u1ea5y nhau l\u00fac mang n\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng\u2026 The rest is history as they say.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng trung th\u1ef1c, th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean h\u1ec7.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00ecnh m\u1eebng \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p h\u1ed3i m\u1edbi quen nhau \u0111\u1ec3 cho con m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 Sapiophile, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh th\u00ec qu\u00e1 Sapiosexual lu\u00f4n, t\u00ean n\u00e0o d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p trai, cao l\u1edbn, gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng, d\u00ed d\u1ecfm, l\u00e0 xin m\u1eddi l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. M\u00ecnh m\u00e0 t\u1ea3 b\u00e0 x\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u1ee3 kinh ho\u00e0ng, t\u00f3c d\u1ea7y nh\u01b0 s\u01b0 t\u1eed, tr\u00e1n to, m\u0169i b\u1ef1, c\u1eb1m l\u1edbn, m\u00f4i d\u00e0y, l\u00f4ng m\u00e0y s\u00e2u r\u00f3m, r\u0103ng b\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c, m\u1eb7t b\u1ef1\u2026 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec g\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e9t\u2026 Gh\u00e9t c\u1ee7a n\u00e0o tr\u1eddi trao c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f3 LOL.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi cho h\u1eadu v\u1eadn \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o<\/b>. IMHO <\/em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edch k\u1ef7, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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