{"id":6839,"date":"2022-09-08T14:33:11","date_gmt":"2022-09-08T21:33:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/?p=6839"},"modified":"2025-04-16T14:45:25","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T21:45:25","slug":"quan-tam-toi-con-cai-tu-trong-bung-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/quan-tam-toi-con-cai-tu-trong-bung-me.html","title":{"rendered":"Quan T\u00e2m T\u1edbi Con C\u00e1i T\u1eeb Trong B\u1ee5ng M\u1eb9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><em>H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi, th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n l\u00ean sau bao nhi\u00eau ng\u00e0y xu\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft cho nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb \u0111ang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 con ho\u1eb7c s\u1eafp s\u1eeda c\u00f3 con. M\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i, con vui, gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n s\u1ebd l\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u1ebd sung t\u00fac. N\u00ean \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i m\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i. B\u00e0i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd d\u00e0i, n\u1ebfu l\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc tho\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u1ed3i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u1edb v\u1ea9n, n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh sai th\u00ec n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u01a1n \u201cshow me the money\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a m\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i sao m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb t\u1edbi 7 \u0111\u1ee9a con, m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam l\u01b0\u01a1ng, sau n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edd v\u1ea3 tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0. M\u00ecnh gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh, t\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebb ra v\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i h\u1ea1i cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. M\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 khi b\u1ed1 cho c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 \u0111i V\u0169ng T\u00e0u cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ti\u1ec7m ngon v\u00e0 b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i th\u1ea3 c\u1eeda v\u1edbi s\u00f3ng bi\u1ec3n, n\u00ean b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111i Cancun m\u1ed7i n\u0103m t\u1eeb khi con m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebb t\u1edbi gi\u1edf.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>N\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 kh\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc VN, VN l\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 M\u1ef9 l\u00e0 Hi\u1ec7p ch\u1ee7ng n\u00ean n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ef9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi da m\u1ea7u, VN \u201c\u0111a s\u1ed1\u201d ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u da m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i kh\u00e1c nhau t\u1eeb B\u1eafc xu\u1ed1ng Nam. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u1edf M\u1ef9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n \u1edf VN v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea1nh tranh, t\u1eeb v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n n\u00ean n\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, t\u1ee5i nh\u1ecf d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 b\u1ec7nh khi n\u00f3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, c\u00e1i c\u00e2u \u201cb\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 sinh con, tr\u1eddi sinh t\u00ednh\u201d theo m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ba x\u1ea1o, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi con m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o h\u01b0 v\u00e0 b\u1ecbnh t\u1eadt t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao, ai mu\u1ed1n ngu\u1ef5 bi\u1ec7n sao th\u00ec ngu\u1ef5 bi\u1ec7n, t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecdc n\u1eefa n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n tin v\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 sinh con tr\u1eddi sinh t\u00ednh. Theo m\u00ecnh c\u00e2u n\u00e0y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft con b\u1ecf ch\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Khi m\u00ecnh l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u00e0 x\u00e3 33 tu\u1ed5i, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con li\u1ec1n v\u00ec n\u1ebfu l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u00ec s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb. M\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 Psychology c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Theo <b>Psychology #1 <\/b>th\u00ec t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 khi mang thai. Th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 khi b\u00e0 x\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea7u, m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea3 vui v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n, kh\u00f4ng lo l\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. M\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebb ra kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh, vui v\u1ebb, t\u1ef1 tinh, l\u1ea1c quan. T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebb v\u00ec m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea7u v\u00e0 b\u1eaft b\u1ed1 l\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 planning ch\u1eb7t tr\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00f3 \u00e1c c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau d\u00f9 ta \u0111\u00e2y \u201c<b>do the right thing<\/b>\u201d, trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, theo m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd l\u00e0 v\u1eady v\u00e0 t\u1ee5i Psychology n\u00f3 \u00edt khi sai.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em><b>Psychology #2<\/b>: T\u00ednh t\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean n\u00f3 tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o <b>ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c<\/b> (kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang ch\u1eef kh\u00f4ng &#8211; <b>subconscious mind<\/b>), ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 sao? Khi m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n b\u00e9, m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y tr\u1eafng, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t, x\u1ea5u vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea5y v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn cho t\u1edbi gi\u00e0 m\u00e0 \u0111a s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u1eeb ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh ra. Th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao t\u1ee5i M\u1ef9 khi n\u00f3 d\u1eady con t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf t\u1edbi l\u1edbn (t\u1ee5i c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc) n\u00f3 d\u00f9ng <b>positive reinforcement <\/b>thay v\u00ec <b>negative reinforcement<\/b> m\u00e0 VN th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft Negative reinforcement m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft? h\u1ecfi b\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh, anh ch\u1ecb m\u00ecnh khi d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc. Th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh sau n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o c\u00e1i ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i Positive Reinforcement, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u th\u00ec m\u00ecnh cho bi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201c<b>NO\u201d<\/b> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 \u201c<b>YES<\/b>\u201d, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201c<b>CH\u00ca<\/b>\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201c<b>KHEN<\/b>\u201d, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ea3o \u201cYES\u201d nhi\u1ec1u n\u00f3 \u201c<b>L\u1edcN<\/b>\u201d, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00e0o m\u00e0 l\u1eddn c\u1ea3 v\u00ec khi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i yes v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7t n\u00f3 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u, con n\u00edt kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh kinh ho\u00e0ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e3i l\u1ed9n, qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi to v\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb9. Th\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng nhau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con m\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ra l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean to ti\u1ebfng trong nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 th\u1ecdt c\u00f9 l\u00e9t nhau cho c\u01b0\u1eddi vang l\u00ean. Ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1ea7y, n\u1ebfu nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u00ec qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o, \u0111\u1eadp b\u00e0n \u0111\u1eadp gh\u1ebf h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nghe? N\u00ean th\u00f4ng m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Khi gi\u1eadn qu\u00e1 th\u00ec \u0111i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda, ng\u1ed3i 5-10 ph\u00fat, khi ngu\u00f4i h\u00e3y ra v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda kia l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Positive Reinforcement nh\u1ed3i \u201cs\u1ecd\u201d t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o n\u00f3 b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecbnh tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00ean b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m hy sinh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u00ec l\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 con, t\u1ed9i t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 l\u1eafm. <b>They\u2019ve never asked to be born<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em><b>Psychology #3<\/b>: Khi cho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec, cho c\u00e1i n\u00f3 th\u00edch thay v\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00edch v\u00ec m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con m\u00ecnh. H\u00f4m nay con m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i n\u00e0y m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd cho n\u00f3 ng\u00e0y mai, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay n\u1eefa. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u201cchi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 n\u00f3 h\u01b0\u201d, l\u1ea1i suy di\u1ec5n bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m \u0111i, n\u00f3 h\u01b0 th\u00ec m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft, ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 h\u01b0, cho ngay v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh \u201c<b>BI QUAN<\/b>\u201d v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em><b>Kinh nghi\u1ec7m raise con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em>L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng con, mu\u1ed1n cho con \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t, th\u1eadt gi\u1ecfi, m\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi b\u00e0i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i con t\u1eeb khi sinh ra \u0111\u1eddi. Thi\u1ec7t ra trong internet, c\u1ea3 t\u1ef7 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i con, hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n con t\u1eeb b\u00e9. M\u00ecnh \u0111i mua cho con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf mang tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, cho n\u00f3 nghe nh\u1ea1c Mozart cho baby, kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec. Cho t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, b\u00e9 m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n, m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mua computer games cho b\u00e9 ch\u01a1i, b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch games c\u1ee7a Disney, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi xen v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng games to\u00e1n, b\u00e9 c\u0169ng th\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch l\u1eafm. Khi b\u00e9 l\u1edbn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea7n 3 tu\u1ed5i, m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i b\u1ea7y \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111i mua computer v\u00e0 games d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc to\u00e1n, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam, b\u00e9 l\u00e0m to\u00e1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, m\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o, b\u00e9 bu\u1ed3n, l\u1ee7i th\u1ee7i ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c th\u00fat th\u00edt. \u201cb\u1ed9p\u201d, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh \u201csao m\u00e0y \u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 th\u1ebf? Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a m\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc to\u00e1n h\u1ed3i ba tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng? m\u00e0y th\u00edch ch\u01a1i hay th\u00edch h\u1ecdc?\u201d Th\u00ec ra \u00f4ng Tr\u1eddi v\u1eeba c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o m\u00ecnh (m\u00ecnh th\u00edch \u00f4ng Tr\u1eddi v\u00ec \u00f4ng m\u00e0y tao m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh x\u01b0ng con LOL). M\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, \u0111i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con b\u00e9 ng\u1ed3i th\u00fat th\u00edt, m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u00e1, \u00f4m b\u00e9 v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1eaft b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 qu\u00e1t b\u00e9 n\u1eefa. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf \u0111i, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0 x\u00e3 lo chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7. M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u tin v\u1ec1 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ebb trung, vui \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a m\u1ea5y b\u00e9 b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1edbp m\u1ea5t, t\u1edbi l\u00fac l\u1edbn l\u00ean, sinh t\u1eadt v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u1ef1 t\u1eed, m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 \u00f4ng Tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ee3p tai nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00ec \u1ed5ng \u0111ang ph\u1ea1t h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf kia v\u00ec ki\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ed1ng b\u1eady n\u00ean ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3. Tr\u1eddi cho t\u1ee5i con n\u00edt l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 vui, b\u00e9 \u00f4m m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00fac kh\u00edch ngay. M\u00ecnh ra ngo\u00e0i computer, v\u1ea5t m\u1ea5y c\u00e1i CD games c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u00e0o s\u1ecdt r\u00e1c. Con n\u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebb ra \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc s\u1ef1 vui v\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f9a d\u1ee1n, s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n con v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i h\u1ea5p t\u1ea5p cho n\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf, ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a m\u00ecnh b\u00e9, m\u00ecnh n\u00e0o ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh g\u00ec, t\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em>C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 cho n\u00f3 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ra c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00edt th\u1edf kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong l\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 expose v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi tr\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 quen thu\u1ed9c, con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u1edb v\u1ea9n trong khi anh em h\u1ecd n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 b\u1ecb kh\u00f3 th\u1edf v\u00ec b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t trong nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 v\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u201ctr\u00fang gi\u00f3\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>T\u1eeb khi bi\u1ebft ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, m\u00ecnh cho b\u00e9 \u0111i Hometown buffet \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n \u0111\u1ee7 lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n kh\u00e1c nhau, ngay c\u1ea3 h\u1ed9t v\u1ecbt l\u1ed9n.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u00e9 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, n\u00f3 \u0103n \u0111\u1ee7 lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00ean n\u00f3 d\u1ec5 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Ng\u1ed3i ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ai c\u0169ng lo, v\u00e0 lo qu\u00e1 tr\u1edbn, nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebb ra ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n hai b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 nghe nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi vang, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng \u00f2 \u01a1, d\u00ed d\u1ea7u, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea1c Mozart, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng phi\u1ebfm \u0111\u00e0n A,B,C,D. M\u00ecnh v\u1ee9t h\u1ebft PC games m\u00e0 con b\u00e9 v\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng nh\u00f3c v\u1eabn h\u1ecdc A, c\u00e1i quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hai \u0111\u1ee9a r\u1ea5t vui, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t, caring, good sense of humor, t\u1ef1 tin, v\u00e0 v\u1eabn th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0 ai, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 hay kh\u00f4ng, t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0103n, c\u01b0\u1eddi khi vui, kh\u00f3c khi b\u1ecb \u0111au ho\u1eb7c b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 sung s\u01b0\u1edbng khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u00f4m \u1ea5p v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau n\u00f3. C\u00e1i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n hay nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u1ed1i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f9a d\u1ee1n v\u1edbi nhau. Khi t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, v\u1eabn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vui \u0111\u00f9a s\u1ebd c\u00f3 sarcasm (m\u00f3c m\u00e1y) trong \u0111\u00f3 LOL. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>M\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t m\u1eebng con l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng nh\u00f3c l\u1edbp 11. Hai \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con n\u00edt, vui ch\u01a1i, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a trong s\u1ef1 <b>h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean (innocence<\/b>). Sau n\u00e0y khi l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ednh quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd gi\u00fap n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em>Khi con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec m\u00ecnh cho hai \u0111\u1ee9a v\u00e0o <b>pre-school. <\/b>Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eaft, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 th\u1edd c\u00f3 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3 pre-school. Thi\u1ec7t ra pre-school l\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1eadp cho con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft nghe l\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, ngo\u00e0i ra n\u00f3 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap cho con m\u00ecnh chung \u0111\u1ee5ng, l\u00e0m quen, ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf M\u1ef9, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00e1i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m con m\u00ecnh d\u1ea1n ra khi \u0111i v\u00e0o M\u1eabu Gi\u00e1o. Trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y con m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 \u0111i b\u00f4 v\u00e0 lau ch\u00f9i l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i n\u00e0y g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 potty train. C\u00e1i quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft b\u00e1o cho c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o bi\u1ebft khi b\u00e9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i b\u00f4, \u0111i ti\u1ec3u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee3 , ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1n. M\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 lo cho b\u00e9. N\u00ean b\u1ecf th\u1eddi gi\u1edd v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau cho con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>T\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u00ec theo m\u00ecnh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i hy sinh l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>1. M\u00ecnh b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gi\u1edd tham gia nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7n volunteer cho l\u1edbp, nh\u01b0 trong l\u1edbp v\u00e0 field trips.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>2. M\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u00e0 x\u00e3 ki\u1ebfm khu \u1edf c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o t\u1ed1t thay v\u00ec mua nh\u1eefng ch\u1ed7 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00edch, v\u00ec con m\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. M\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n \u1edf khu n\u00e0o, v\u00e0o <a href=\"https:\/\/greatschools.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><button class=\"w3-button w3-blue w3-round-xlarge\">greatschools<\/button><\/a> coi c\u00e1i zipcode c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh con ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 reviews c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecdc sinh \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 coi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i g\u00ec. Demographics nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u bullying hay kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y? M\u00ecnh ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t cho con th\u00ec m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi \u0111i mua nh\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111i m\u01b0\u1edbn nh\u00e0 thay v\u00ec mua n\u1ebfu q\u00faa \u0111\u1eaft.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>3. M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng trong m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc l\u1edbn, m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ch\u1edf b\u00e9 \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng ch\u1edd cho b\u00e9 v\u00e0o l\u1edbp, hai \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 vui khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. Khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh vui, t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n n\u00ean con m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 psychology 101 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>4. Trong m\u1ed7i l\u1edbp, n\u0103m n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 open houses cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p th\u00e0y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m trong l\u1edbp, sau gi\u1edd \u0111i l\u00e0m, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0o coi con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0103n ra sao. T\u1ee5i nh\u1ecf r\u1ea5t th\u00edch show off nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00e9 l\u00e0m trong l\u1edbp, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y cho b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 lo cho b\u00e9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e9.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>5. \u0110\u1eebng underestimate s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u00f3 gi\u00fap con m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a l\u1edbp m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t trong hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t volunteer \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00f4, th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay phi\u00ean nhau l\u00e0m. Con m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t vui v\u00e0 h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n khi m\u00ecnh ch\u1edf b\u00e9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e9 \u0111i field trips, m\u00e0 thi\u1ec7t ra m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i field trips n\u00e0y cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 ti\u1ebfng Anh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi, m\u00ecnh nh\u00ecn T\u1ea7u, \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 m\u1edbi qua \u0111i volunteer, n\u00f3i tr\u1ecd tr\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u0169ng nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, c\u1ea3 hai con m\u00ecnh thi\u1ec7t ra r\u1ea5t popular trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n hai \u0111\u1ee9a c\u1ea3, birthday m\u00ecnh t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, b\u00e9 g\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u0111i chung vui v\u1edbi b\u00e9. M\u00ecnh nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y b\u00e9 l\u00ean l\u1edbp, nhi\u1ec1u em b\u00e9 kh\u00f3c v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi chung vui v\u1edbi m\u1ea5y em, m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1, \u0111a s\u1ed1 d\u00e2n \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>6. \u201cG\u1ea7n m\u1ef1c th\u00ec \u0111en, g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e8n th\u00ec s\u00e1ng\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cn\u1ed3i n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u1eafp vung \u0111\u00f3\u201d, khi l\u00ean t\u1eddi Middle school ( l\u1edbp 7, v\u00e0 8) b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 vui \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi nhau, b\u00e9 l\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc, m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o ch\u1ec9 v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u00ean l\u1edbp, nh\u01b0ng l\u00ean Middle school b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc straight A v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi. Khi s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 theo m\u1ed9t gu\u1ed3ng m\u00e1y t\u1ed1t, th\u00ec l\u00ean trung h\u1ecdc, c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft lo cho \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc, tham gia studen bodies, clubs, v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh popular h\u01a1n m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 5 ch\u1ea5m nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u01b0ng 4 ch\u1ea5m c\u00f3, theo m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i, l\u1ea5y AP nhi\u1ec1u cho kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ch\u01a1i, ch\u01a1i games v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. Con m\u00ecnh sau khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m, ch\u01a1i games, \u0111i sinh nh\u1eadt c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh h\u1ed3i trung h\u1ecdc. Ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd hai \u0111\u1ee9a ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><em><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span><b>Fail to plan, plan to fail<\/b>. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mau, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau d\u1ecbp may \u0111\u1ec3 qua h\u00e3ng l\u1edbn, ki\u1ebfm nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd h\u01a1n v\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 gi\u1edd ch\u1eafm s\u00f3c cho con m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a t\u1ee5i n\u00f3. Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho hai \u0111\u1ee9a t\u1eebng ly t\u1eebng t\u00ed, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 h\u01b0, con m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nhau, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Ch\u00fac m\u1ecdi em tr\u1ebb lo cho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chu \u0111\u00e1o. M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 lo cho con c\u00e1i, hay thi\u1ec7t.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"igallery\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_mom.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6840\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_mom-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"be_mom\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_mom-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_mom.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_smile.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6841\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_smile-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"be_smile\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_smile-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_be_smile.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"lcp_catlist\" id=\"lcp_instance_0\"><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi, th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n l\u00ean sau bao nhi\u00eau ng\u00e0y xu\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft cho nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb \u0111ang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 con ho\u1eb7c s\u1eafp s\u1eeda c\u00f3 con. 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