{"id":7350,"date":"2025-05-31T09:28:35","date_gmt":"2025-05-31T16:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/?p=7350"},"modified":"2025-05-31T09:28:35","modified_gmt":"2025-05-31T16:28:35","slug":"de-y-quan-tam-toi-con-cai-khi-bi-buon-buctram-cam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/de-y-quan-tam-toi-con-cai-khi-bi-buon-buctram-cam.html","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1ec3 \u00dd, Quan T\u00e2m T\u1edbi Con C\u00e1i Khi B\u1ecb Bu\u1ed3n B\u1ef1c\u2026Tr\u1ea7m C\u1ea3m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><em>H\u00f4m qua con trai \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1, m\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi th\u0103m nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng h\u00f4m nay anh ch\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i im l\u1eb7ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u00ean l\u1ea7u li\u1ec1n. M\u1eb9 th\u00ec ch\u1edd con v\u1ec1 n\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ed3 cho con \u0103n, v\u1eabn ch\u1edd d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e0. M\u00ecnh l\u00ean l\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o bu\u1ed3ng t\u1eafm t\u1eafm r\u1eeda m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda. M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111i t\u1eafm, ra v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 t\u1eafm, b\u00e8n v\u00f4 ph\u00f2ng, g\u00f5 c\u1eeda r\u1ed3i v\u00e0o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00ed m\u1eb7t v\u00e0o phone coi g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. M\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u00f3i \u201cleave me alone\u201d. M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb n\u1eb7ng r\u1ed3i, OK, drop the phone and tell me how\u2019re doing. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u00f3i nh\u1ecf, \u201ceverything is so bad\u201d. M\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi at your age, how can anything be so bad? Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u00e0m con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0103n, r\u1ea7u r\u0129. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 m\u1edbi th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9, \u201cI failed Physics, if I have to take it again, I can\u2019t transfer to UC in 2 years\u201d. T\u1ea1i sao con failed? Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u00e0i? Con ngh\u0129 con hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng th\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 ra b\u00e0i con l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 \u1ed5ng mu\u1ed1n. \u00d4ng th\u1ea7y n\u00e0y ai c\u0169ng gh\u00e9t m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i petition cho \u1ed5ng b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i. M\u00ecnh n\u00f3i, n\u1ebfu con \u0111\u1ecdc h\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, l\u00e0m h\u1ebft b\u00e0i trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u00ec \u1ed5ng c\u00f3 ra b\u00e0i kh\u00f3 n\u00e0o con l\u00e0m c\u0169ng xong v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 t\u1ed9i cho th\u1ea7y kh\u00f3, th\u00e0y d\u1ecfm. Th\u1eb1ng nh\u00f3c im l\u1eb7ng. M\u00ecnh n\u00f3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd con l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i l\u1edbp m\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ea5y A c\u0169ng b\u1ecb chia hai th\u00ec GPA s\u1ebd xu\u1ed1ng. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng cho l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i l\u1edbp 3 l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i \u0111i\u1ec3m cao nh\u1ea5t. Are you sure? M\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi. N\u1ebfu v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f2n lo g\u00ec n\u1eefa, <b>m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 xong r\u1ed3i, \u0111\u00e3 failed r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng lo bu\u1ed3n n\u1eefa, ph\u1ea3i lo l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao k\u1ef3 t\u1edbi l\u1ea5y A. C\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc 2 n\u0103m chuy\u1ec3n tr\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ecb tr\u1ec5 th\u00ec 3 n\u0103m c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd FAIL n\u1eefa, OK<\/b>? <b>Con l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i, t\u1edbi gi\u1edd con ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 lo l\u1ea5y cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n b\u1ed1 gi\u00fap th\u00ec b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 lo l\u1ea5y. B\u00e0 x\u00e3 nghe hai b\u1ed1 con n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng \u0111i v\u00e0o h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec. Ra ng\u1ed3i \u00f4m con li\u1ec1n, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 kh\u00f3c b\u1eadt l\u00ean, v\u00ec th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, v\u00ec th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn hay sao \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 xu\u1ed1ng nh\u00e0 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui h\u01a1n. Ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ed3i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e0n t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 semesters, 1 semester GPA 3.67, 1 semester GPA 4.0, c\u00f2n semester n\u00e0y b\u1ecb tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c. M\u00ecnh n\u00f3i n\u1ebfu c\u00e1i l\u1edbp Physics n\u00e0y m\u00e0 k\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec3m xu\u1ed1ng th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u coi nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u00f3i n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y A \u0111\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf v\u00e0o c\u00e1i F n\u00e0y. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 xong, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0103n h\u1ebft t\u00f4 c\u01a1m v\u1edbi th\u1ecbt ngon l\u00e0nh thay v\u00ec n\u1eb1m l\u1ee7i th\u1ee7i trong ph\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ai, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 khi th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng li\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3 h\u01b0\u01a1u s\u1ee3 v\u01b0\u1ee3n, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00e9o l\u00e2u d\u00e0i th\u00e0nh b\u1ecbnh Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng vui, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, c\u00e1i quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m h\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 khi m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng la r\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, kh\u00f4ng v\u1edb v\u1ea9n, ch\u1ec9 khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 cho m\u1ed9t SOLUTION d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m h\u01b0 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m h\u01b0 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng s\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n lo l\u1eafng n\u1eefa v\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao l\u00e0m h\u01b0 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 t\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng h\u01b0 n\u1eefa m\u1edbi quan tr\u1ecdng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0m sai r\u1ed3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1edb v\u1ea9n, chuy\u1ec7n xong r\u1ed3i, ki\u1ebfm cho ra b\u1ecbnh h\u01b0, ch\u1eefa n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef3 t\u1edbi b\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>M\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 pressure v\u1ec1 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd \u0111\u00fang h\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 tr\u1ec5 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao, thi\u1ec7t ra kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u1ec5 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u00e2u th\u00f4i, b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi n\u0103m 30 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ed1 c\u0169ng l\u00e3nh D, F c\u1ea3 t\u1ef7, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 con c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Kh\u00f4ng v\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, v\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edb v\u1ea9n, ra c\u00f3 BSEE l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c cho. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f9a \u201cThanks Dad for your confidence and your experience\u201d. <b>Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi t\u00ednh h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 m\u1eebng<\/b>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_me.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6812\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_me.jpg\" alt=\"b\u1ed1 con\" width=\"600\" height=\"337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_me.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_me-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_mom_xmas-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7351\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_mom_xmas-1.jpg\" alt=\"brandon mom xmas\" width=\"600\" height=\"337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_mom_xmas-1.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-content\/uploads\/z_brandon_mom_xmas-1-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul class=\"lcp_catlist\" id=\"lcp_instance_0\"><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00f4m qua con trai \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1, m\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi th\u0103m nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng h\u00f4m nay anh ch\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i im l\u1eb7ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u00ean l\u1ea7u li\u1ec1n. M\u1eb9 th\u00ec ch\u1edd con v\u1ec1 n\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ed3 cho con \u0103n, v\u1eabn ch\u1edd d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e0. M\u00ecnh l\u00ean l\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o bu\u1ed3ng t\u1eafm <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/de-y-quan-tam-toi-con-cai-khi-bi-buon-buctram-cam.html\" class=\"more-link\">&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7351,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1033],"tags":[1723,1426,1727,1411,1721],"class_list":["post-7350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-xay-dung-gia-dinh","tag-buon","tag-de-y","tag-hoc-hanh","tag-quan-tam","tag-tram-cam"],"views":61,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7350"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7350\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7352,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7350\/revisions\/7352"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7351"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dognmonkey.com\/svlifevn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}